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Demons That have Sex With You and My Experience

November 5, 2013

An incubus spirit is a demonic spirit that comes in the night and has sex with women. A succubus spirit is a spirit that comes in the night and has sex with men.

I have experienced this a few times and I decided to write a blog post about it because many people may have experienced this and may not have any idea of what it is. I did my own research and now I know how to deal with this type of situation. A majority of this blog post is based off of my own experience so for a more in depth analysis on incubus and succubus spirits, you can simply Google it.

When I would struggle with thoughts of perversion and dwell on them, especially before bed, I would have vivid sexual dreams and could literally feel as if I was having sex in my physical body. Shortly after these feelings, I would be awakened out of bed because I am such a light sleeper and I am also sensitive to spiritual activity. Because I’m a light sleeper, I have never actually had a full out dream while having sex with and incubus spirit. In other words, as soon as I noticed what was happening, I would cut it short.

Think about it, demonic activity is more active during the night. People themselves are more vulnerable during the night. So if you go to bed without covering yourself with the blood of Jesus in prayer, and if you open the door for the enemy through perverse thoughts, on top of already being vulnerable because you are asleep and less aware of your surroundings, you are not only giving evil spirits authority over you but giving them and invitation into your home and into your body, which is the temple of the Holy Spirit.

These encounters with the incubus spirit were mostly common during a season where I was struggling with lustful thoughts, but don’t be deceived, lust is not the only thing that could give these demons free reign, any type of sin can. When I finally got over the perverted thoughts and began covering myself with the blood of Jesus before bed, I stopped getting visitations.

Now recently, after being married, I got a visitation. I was so broken and saddened that day because I thought I had been freed from lust. Plus I’m married so I didn’t understand how I could have and issue with lust but the Lord revealed to me that it wasn’t lust. It was the deep bitterness, anger, and unforgiveness that I had in my heart from an argument that my husband and I got into before I went to bed. That is what left an open door for the spirit to come and have sex with me. I went to bed angry.

“In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry,” – Ephesians 4:6

When you are violated by this lustful spirit, you need to renounce and rebuke them, the dream, and the seed they have planted within you in the name of Jesus. You also need to repent. I said you need to renounce the seed because that is the whole point of the demon having sex with you. It’s not simply because they think you’re cute or find you attractive. They want to plant a lustful seed in you and have it grow. The last thing you want is a spiritual baby from a demon spirit. Unless you uproot that seed through repentance and prayer, that is exactly what will happen.

That morning I was so confused to why the incubus had returned, I was fearful, and because I was fearful, I had no effect when trying to rebuke the spirit and seed. Later on in the day I could tell that the seed had been manifesting because even though I was looking a hot mess that day, as I was walking through my college campus, the same types of guys who used to try and talk to me when I wasn’t delivered were staring me down lustfully throughout the day. It was the spirits on these men that recognized the spirit growing on me and some of the spirits were even bold enough to speak up and say things like, “so what’s up with you?” and “How you doin’?”.

When I got delivered from lust, I stopped attracting those types of spirits… so being hollered at from those guys was devastating. I felt like I had taken a step back.  I went home that day crying and praying to God because I was so disgusted with myself. That’s when He revealed to me the root of bitterness within me from the argument my husband and I had, that caused all of this. If you think I’m making this up, the bible even says in Hebrews 12:15, “See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.” I was defiled because of my root of bitterness!

Then I repented to God and to my husband and since then made a decision to watch out for what seeds I let get planted and grow within my heart. These spirits are especially after marriages! They hate the purity that exudes out of a holy union and are on a mission to destroy it. So, married couples struggling with this need to be especially aware and careful.

The point is, please don’t let sin separate you from God and if you’re married, from your spouse. It’s definitely not worth it. Especially if it’s over a little meaningless argument or an impure thought that you could have simply casted down to begin with.

– Karolyne

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14 Comments

  • Reply Jenny G. November 26, 2013 at 5:37 pm

    Thank You for posting this blog. You don’t understand how much light you have just shed on a really dark part of my life, I am literally crying. I thought it was my imagination and I will do more research for myself! Grateful for you sis!

  • Reply Anonymous December 5, 2013 at 3:39 am

    Thanks for posting this!

  • Reply Caitlin Marie December 20, 2013 at 6:09 pm

    I really needed this and as soon as I go to bed I’m rebuking!!! I feel so bad and want to cry I didn’t know this was really destroying me. Thnkyou for this!

  • Reply kay January 17, 2015 at 2:29 pm

    praise God for this testimony Miss Caroline I was having a battle in the middle of the night and God led me to your website IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT…Jesus! I was particularly honed in by you saying, _”a door was opened… Of bitterness… “. I was like,wow! If I get mad or angry about something.. This gives the incubus legal right to come in…but in Jesus name I cast him out. Tonight I resisted and he fleed James 4:7. I went back to sleep after covering myself with the blood then I saw the shell of a man with a black robe and a black hat standing over MW with seething teeth and just wreaking with lust!! BUT THE DEVIL IS A LIAR….I CAST HIM OUT AND SENT that entity to THE PIT. I continued my deliverance the next day in agreement with one of the elders of my church and I prophetically demonstrated him getting kicked out and opened the door and commanded him to go! Summoned angels to chain him in the deep!!

    Thank God for his revelation and exposure! I saw what this thing was and now I know how to pray.
    God bless you karolyne…continue to be transparent pure hearted and honest…you’re helping MANY TO OVERCOME THE WILES OF THE DEVIL

  • Reply Solomon Adebamowo January 12, 2016 at 3:08 pm

    Dear Karolyne,

    I read your short note on the succubus and incubus. I also, I was a victim of what we call here in Nigeria “spirit wife”. This is because I used to watch a lot of american movies that had obscenity, I had sex before I married, got stock on soft porn, got exposed to pornography at a very early stage of my life, worked in a firm to sold porn movies when I was young I mean the list goes on. I didn’t know I needed deliverance until I was close to thirty years of age. Actually, all this happened because I backslide from faith in 1993 and went into sex exposure almost immediately. My deliverance took years I continued to pray about this issue. Presently, I am free as long as I stay away from any kind of soft porn.

    Lust was also a very big issue for me. It took God to practically deliver me from that. There are so many things that are responsible for spirit wives and spirit husbands. However, it is very pertinent to remain prayerful and live a holy life.

    God bless you.

  • Reply Kenyetta Hudson April 20, 2016 at 9:15 pm

    Karolyne, this is amazing. Thank you very much for sharing your testimony. I have had this experience off and on for the past few years. It started when I was a teenager. I would have experiences in my sleep where something was holding me down. I could see and hear what was around me but I felt like I had no absolute control over my body. I would begin to pray to God and rebuke that demonic spirit in the name of Jesus and instantly I would feel release. There have been other times when I would see the face of a male figure, possibly someone I knew yet had no absolute romantic relationship to whatsoever. Because of lustful desires and not being filled with the conviction of the Holy Spirit, this demon would have its way. And I even became intimidated by it at one point, stopped praying, lost my faith and thought that this was just something I was going to have to deal with. Just this year I heard a powerful word by Pastor Stephen Darby of Destined Ministries on Youtube teach a sermon about the marine kingdom and also did additional research. I began to learn more about the Incubus and Succubus demons and could not understand why this is such a rare topic discussed in modern day Christianity. The spirit realm is no joke, and neither is the kingdom of darkness. I truly believe that people need to hear more about it and come to an understanding as to how powerful the spirit of lust truly is and why God commands us to not give into temptation. Again, thank you for sharing your story.

    • Reply karolyneroberts April 23, 2016 at 4:31 pm

      Wow, thank you so much for sharing your story. I’ve heard of so many others who could relate to the same experience. I appreciate your insightful comment Sis. God bless and I will definitely be checking out that video!

  • Reply Wole May 22, 2016 at 1:43 am

    God bless u for this post. It’s 2.34am right now and am not on bed because I just got attacked by this succubus spirit but cut it short before it happens and went to my altar to pray and afterwards found this post as i try to get understanding of what’s going on. Just like u shared it’s been on and off in my life especially when I just finished fighting a battle in the place of prayer. Sometimes I wake up to cut it short but sometimes I couldn’t and I ll end up ejaculating.
    Something I want to add is that dis succubus spirit also manifest my way of uncontrollable desire to have sex with ones spouse even at odd times. Lately I will want to have sex with my wife in the morning when am suppose to be heading for work, I thought it’s a healthy sexual relationship in marriage but now I realize it’s a sign that this spirit is at work and is only setting me up for trouble silently. Because if I can’t control my sexual urge for my wife now gradually it can lead to uncontrollable urge for other women. But God forbid! The devil has lost yet again! Praise the Living God!!! Just thought I should mention this danger signal in addition to what you have said.
    I have taken note of this “little foxes” like unconfessed sin of anger, gossip before going to bed and prayerlessness or too short prayers at bed time as entry pass for this filthy spirit during one sleep from your post.
    We are conquerors through Christ in Jesus name! Shalom.

    • Reply karolyneroberts May 23, 2016 at 12:03 am

      Thank you for sharing this… You mentioned an interesting point in regards to the urge to have sex with your wife… I will definitely pray on that to seek more revelation in that area but I think it most importantly takes that discernment and divine insight from the Holy Spirit to know if we’re being driven by a healthy desire for our spouse, that comes for the Lord, or a spirit of lust. It can be differenct for everyone. I appreciate you for opening up on this post and being transparent about your testimony! Keep persevering. God bless, Karolyne

  • Reply Wole May 22, 2016 at 1:45 am

    *in bed (on bed)

  • Reply Devyn Quinn September 3, 2016 at 12:25 pm

    Wow! Just a couple of days ago I had a crazy dream about a person, who I recognized as a spirit because there was not an actual body, get into my bed. The invisible hand then began to touch me on top of my clothing but once the spirit hit my bare hand I felt this powerful uncomfortable shock which woke me up out of my sleep. I woke up asking God what this meant. Two days later I come across your article. I’ve been asking God to start showing me my heart and the things that I have become desensitized to. Thank You for writing this article. I’m definitely am going to read up on it.

    • Reply Karolyne Roberts September 5, 2016 at 12:16 pm

      Glory to God!! I’m so happy you came across this article! Hope this information is helpful and you find everything you need to know as you continue on your search. Praying for you!

  • Reply Phil November 16, 2016 at 1:48 pm

    Karolyn,

    I was truly blessed to read this. I used to battle with a succubus spirit ignorantly in the past, but wasn’t concerned as lust was a sin that I welcomed in my life at that time. Now happily married and truly seeking God’s holiness I am confused to why this issue has recently resurfaced. The most confusing thing is that i have these sexual dreams almost immediately after having sex with my real wife. It converns her because she isn’t aware of dealing with these spirits any longer either since being delivered from sexual sin, but now worries her last is somehow afflicting me. I gather it can be a demonic plot to divide us or even keep it’s seeds planted in me to cause problems later. I’m thankful I’m now beginning to recognize the more i pray. At first it took form of people I knew and trusted, but now it loses its form and I see an invisible being on top of me which causes me to wake up before I begin intercourse. Have you any idea why this is happening especially after a Godly sexual encounter with my wife? Thanks for such an insightful article

    • Reply Karolyne Roberts November 23, 2016 at 5:20 pm

      Hey Phil,

      I would be open and honest with your wife about these issues you are facing. The enemy wants you to stay in the dark so that he can continue to have a foothold in your life. Try bringing this to her attention so you guys and come together and pray against these attacks. This also may be happening after sexual encounters with your wife because she may be dealing with some spirits herself and these things transfer. You will never know until you open up to her about it.. use wisdom when bringing the discussion up and be prayerful about it! Hope this helps 😉

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